What do you think about when you close your eyes just before you go to sleep? And when your mind begins to wander at work or uni?
Those daydreams you have from time to time are actually fantasies, by another name. The imagination provides limitless potential for all your heart's desires to come together into these fantasies.
The perfect boyfriend or girlfriend, your long-awaited wedding day, and other romantic fantasies also reserve special places in your mind. Even if your longings are not that momentous in the grand scheme of things, such as going on a spectacular vacation or becoming especially skilled at a sport or hobby, your daydreams allow your mind to live out a perfect scenario....
Young girls often begin dreaming up their weddings at ages as early as 12or so.. if not sooner. It is very likely that they may even have their bridal party and color scheme chosen before targeting their potential mate!
We Girls are romantic creatures by nature, and thrive on love and amorous thoughts.
Meanwhile, boys tend to think about sports, and often imagine themselves in key roles,professional athletes, or critical goal or point-scorers. It is rare to find a boy who is already thinking of his wedding at such a young age...Aiyohh...never kot...!! Women tend to dream about the future, while many boys and men are more concerned with the present and making the most of it!
*Which is true kannn...?
Fame and fortune also feed into fantasies. Many people crave a few moments in the limelight, whether by acting, modeling or performing in general.
Dreams of freedom can also occur for many people and that freedom could range from freedom from worry, responsibility and stress to the ultimate freedom: the ability to do Whatever You WANT!
*Finally...the universal fantasy- a match made in heaven with a soul mate....Ini la da MAIN prob I always face..!!! Doubtless, the flawless relationship has crossed all of our minds at least once or twice. Mr. or Mrs. Perfect falls at our feet, we fall madly in love and voila!
We are married, living in a beautiful home with a white picket fence, an in ground pool, two young kids and maybe a pet la....
Or maybe that isn't your ideal fantasy.... Whatever the case, having a special someone with whom to share the daily occurrences of life can make all the difference....BUT PAYAH TU...!!! sometimes tuh dah naik phobia la..!!! Well,it is to me though...
This perfect person could be extremely attractive, good looking, polite, intelligent, and very similar to you. He or she could also be on the opposite end of the spectrum. Perhaps it is someone you know, someone you've yet to meet, or someone famous that everyone knows from the big screen. From a prom date, to a significant other, to a marital partner, romantic fantasies top the charts...
Are these daydreams and fantasies healthy and indicative of a good lifestyle? Sure they encourage one to work towards his or her greatest talents and efforts, to dream big and to make things happen but U rasa, Does the time and place of these fantasies matter?
Not so much, but to a degree letting the mind wonder here or there can be a motivating factor if it isnt in complete excess....Pening..pening..!!
The probability of these fantasies actually coming true is relative to each fantasy itself. If you already know your dream guy or girl, approach him or her and express your interest. Get to be friends and see if sparks fly.. it is better to take a chance than to forever wonder what-if and live the fantasy in your mind alone.
A fully paid shopping spree, the perfect date, any number of imaginable thoughts can motivate their dreamer to work toward success and fulfillment of those fantasies. Keeping a fantasy in the back of your mind will give you something to think about when you need a driving force behind you, or something to simply give you a secret smile!
*Me nih cakap banyak..but then again..I myself am in this situation where I'm still hoping dat things would go well between me and my boo..!!! Baby..I really want U in my life...!!! Miss u loads....no matter wat people will say...I still will lurrvvvee u wif all my heart dear..!! Muahhss..!!
*Emo dah nih..!!